MotherHood
Motherhood is priceless, precious, a privilege.
But it’s also HARD. It takes sacrifice, and is guaranteed to stretch you. It demands investment of your heart, mind and soul. It is challenging, rewarding and ultimately the most important ‘job’ you will have in this lifetime.
We are often unprepared or under prepared for the realities it brings and it’s very natural to experience ambivalence or feel overwhelmed.
About Us
The MotherHood is a collaborative initiative born out of our engagements around navigating motherhood and our careers.We found support and shared experiences with each other, discussing the joys and challenges of fulfilling both roles in a way that worked for us and our families.
The HOOD in The MotherHood is crucial; it’s more than just a word—it embodies a sense of belonging, community, and support. In this “hood,” mothers come together, forming a cohesive clan where they share experiences, offer empathy, and provide encouragement to one another. It’s a space where the challenges and joys of motherhood are understood and embraced collectively, fostering solidarity and strength in navigating the complexities of parenthood.
This sense of belonging creates a support system that is invaluable, as it allows mothers to lean on each other, share wisdom, and feel less isolated in their journey, ultimately promoting resilience and well-being.
Celebrating the Role of Women and Mothers
Women are the backbone of society, and mothers play a pivotal role in shaping the future generations. We celebrate the strength, resilience, and boundless love of women everywhere. We honour the diverse experiences and contributions of mothers around the world, recognising the generations before us who fought hard to ensure our rightful place in the world.
These shifts have seen women take on more in the professional domain, while more often than not, still holding all or most of the mental load and responsibility associated with home and childcare. We believe a shift is required in society to bring greater equality in terms of these roles and responsibilities. This, we believe, is the only way to sustain women making their full impact professionally, in their homes and families, and within the greater constructs of society.
At The MotherHood, we believe that it is the role of our generation of women to further challenge societal norms and expectations toward this next big shift —a change that will see men and women equitably sharing responsibility for the practical family responsibilities.
Join us in reshaping societal expectations and fostering a more supportive and inclusive society for all. ( No spam, just useful sharing and info to support and inspire/encourage you!)
A new Identity
New parenthood is considered the second major new role acquisition in adulthood after the acquisition of a partner
-Atkinson et al in Introduction of psychology-.
The transition to motherhood marks not only the birth of a child but also the emergence of a new identity for the woman. This profound shift encompasses a re-evaluation of priorities, values, and roles as women embrace the multifaceted responsibilities of motherhood. Navigating this new identity requires wisdom and consciousness, as it involves not only understanding oneself but also renegotiating relationships in various spheres of life.
New mothers, as well as mothers in general, often struggle to balance their career aspirations with the demands of home and childcare. Despite their dedicated efforts to succeed both as mothers and professionals, many feel overwhelmed by the challenges of nurturing their children, advancing their careers, and maintaining their identities as mothers and individuals. This constant juggling act leaves them feeling as though they are not coping well, with limited opportunities for self-recharge.
Prioritising Self-Care
“If you want to make the pieces of life fit together, if you want to build a career, raise a family, and stay sane, it is hard to escape the conclusion that self-care is the secret ingredient.”
(Laura Vanderkam)
Despite our awareness of the importance of self-care and various attempts to practice it, self-care as a regular practice remains elusive for mothers. Balancing the responsibilities of caring for a family while also tending to one's own needs can feel overwhelming and time we spend on self-care is often marred by feelings of guilt and shame.
At The MotherHood, we believe that self-care isn't selfish—it's a vital aspect of maintaining harmony, integration, happiness and wellbeing in life. Self-care isn't solely about indulging in massages and hair appointments; rather, it encompasses a broader spectrum of practices aimed at nurturing your mental, physical, emotional, social, and spiritual well-being. By prioritising self-care, you replenish your own reserves, enabling you to effectively fulfill the various roles you undertake and positively influence the lives of those around you.
Empowering Working Mothers
For the modern professional woman, balancing career aspirations with family responsibilities can be a daunting task. The MotherHood, offers resources, tips, and community support to help working mothers thrive in both their professional and personal lives. From career development advice to time management strategies, we're here to support you achieve success on your terms.
Empowering working mothers means recognising that challenges are not signs of failure, but signals for growth. Empowerment reconnects us with our inner strength, reminding us of our capability to navigate complex roles. When overwhelmed, we support each other, tapping into our personal power to overcome challenges. This collective empowerment helps us manage multiple roles, embracing the strain as a healthy part of our journey, reinforcing our resilience and capacity for growth.
“The well-being of mothers is the fabric from which the cloth of the future of our society is made.”
- Dr. Oscar Serrallach
Join Our Community
Whether you’re seeking advice, inspiration, or simply a supportive community of like-minded women, The MotherHood welcomes you with open arms.
Join us as we navigate the beautiful chaos of motherhood together, embracing discomfort, confronting guilt and shame, and building character amidst challenges.
Together, let’s empower each other to thrive on this transformative journey.
